Everyone Hungers For Praise

Many People believe that too much praise spoils children by making them conceited.But every child spoiled by too much praise,ten thousand are ruined for lack of it.A typical parent will offer ten or twenty criticisms for every word of praise.The ratio should be reversed.
The same thing applies to adults.People who do not accept themselves,or who may actually dislike themselves,find it difficult to pay compliments.Here is the story goes,A women once told her friend that husband seldom if ever offered a word of commendation to their children or to her.When she asked him why he never praised anyone in the family,he said,"everyone is supposed to perform properly without getting patted on the back for it;but when anyone does something wrong,they're going to hear about it from me."The children were afraid of him and scattered to get out of his way when he came home from work.His wife endured home"for the sake of the children,"but added."The once contribution he makes is to bring home a paycheck.If it weren't for that,I'd divorced him."

Such people were damaged in childhood and seem incapable of functioning as normal parents..Hey Old Folks,,,,,Play the role as a parent....Don't be a fool.....That's all.....